Hi Erik,
I have had the same problem with a 2003 Kitchen Aid (the Artisan 
Model). I switched to an Electrolux after about a year of hasseling 
with the kitchen-aid. I love the electrolux. It is amazing for bread 
and cookie doughs, but doens't do so well with cake batters and 
whipping things like egg whites and whipping cream.
I have also read that the De Longhi is an excellent machine.
For cake batters and such, I went on e-bay and found an old Hobart 
Kitchen-aid (Kitchen-Aid was the best on the market when Hobart was 
making them from about 1965- to the mid-80s). I won it for about 150 
dollars. I have that machine for about 2 years, and it's taken just 
everything I've thrown at it. :)
Good Luck,
Roxanne